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January 1st - The Seventh Day of Christmas celebrates not only the beginning of a new year, and new beginnings, but also Mary, Mother of God. It is a custom today to bless all the members of your household, a day for hospitality. It is a great day to tell stories of births and beginnings.
It is also the day, In our home that we put up the "dead" tree on the fireplace wall. This was a big, dormant looking tree made out of construction paper with lots of bare branches. Throughout the year, as the kids did a good deed or said something nice about someone, etc., we would write it down on a symbol and then put it on the tree. By the end of the year, our tree would be "alive" because of their goodness. Symbols included:
January - Snowflakes
February - Hearts
March - Shamrocks
April - Easter eggs
May - Flowers
June - Sun
July - Flag
August - Clouds
September - Schoolhouse
October - Pumpkins, black cats, etc.
November - Leaves
December - Christmas Tree, Ornaments, etc.
January 3rd - The Ninth Day of Christmas
January 4th - The Tenth Day of Christmas is a day which we celebrate Elizabeth Ann Seton, a wife, mother, and religious who was the first native-born American to be canonized.
January 5th - On the Eleventh Day of Christmas, we remember John Neumann who gave a lot to parochial schools.
January 6th - This is the traditional Epiphany, the Twelfth Day of Christmas. A visit from the magi and the Epiphany blessing of the home is in order. A great day to have a party. This is the climax of Christmas. Make your enthusiasm for this day infectious!
  We've been hosting an annual "Twelfth Night Open House" since 1978. We invite everyone we know. Now that our children are grown, it has become a good time for our family to get together.
Some people are confused by the date of Epiphany. It is our understanding that it moves around on the Liturgical Calendar, being celebrated on the Sunday after New Year's in Canada and the USA.
Remember to bless your home today! Have some incense burning, a sprig from a bush, some water, and divide a cake into as many pieces as you have participants. Hide a coin or dry bean in one piece and distribute them at random. Whoever gets the special piece of cake with the bean/coin in it is crowned (paper crown or party hat), robed (bathrobe), saluted (noisemakers left over from New Year's), and toasted (hot apple cider or whatever...)! The new royalty now writes with chalk over the front door of your home the following:
The numbers represent the new year. The four crosses are the four seasons. C-M-B are the initials of the legendary names of the magi: Caspar, Melchior, and Balthasar. Another explanation of C-M-B is "Christus mansionem benedicat - May Christ bless this dwelling place". Now, say a simple blessing such as:
we thank you for this past year and for the year to come. Be with us as we fill our home with kindness, Help us to dream the dream of a better world Hold us close to each other. May all who come to our home this year Bless us as we burn this incense. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Try singing some Epiphany songs such as "We Three Kings" or "O Come All Ye Faithful". When done with all the rooms, say the Lord's Prayer, and finish with exchanging the sign of peace.
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Epiphany is also called "Theophany", the appearance of God. Epiphany is the climax of the year of grace, an anticipation of the parousia, a foretaste of the fulfillment of the promise of Easter. All of Christmas, all of Advent, and even all of the time since Pentecost have led to this feast.
February 2nd - Candlemas - Feast of Lights - the worst of winter is past. This day closes the Christmas Season. A day for blessing of candles. In many countries, the creche is surrounded today with potted spring flowers -- before being dismantled. Like old Simeon himself, Christmas departs in peace. Also the Feast of the Presentation of the Lord in the Temple. Daytime is lengthening rapidly. The "lengthen season" - the meaning of the word "Lent" - comes soon. The world aches for springtime.
On Christmas Day a light was kindled. On Epiphany this light rose to twinkle from the stars. Today, this starlight is placed in our very arms. We are hand-in-hand with God.
Sheri and Bob Stritof